Cuz I'm polite that way.
Sex is boring. Unless you're having it. I have written on this many times. See: archives.
If you don't give and expect oral, there is no point to continuing the 'relationship'. If she doesn't like you to wrap her hair in one fist, while you spank her ass and fuck her hard, dog style, well, what is the point of continuing?
Bring her home from church, and shin her pantyhose down, and lick her stupid in the kitchen, up against the appliance of your choice, then mouth-fuck her and come all over her face.
Oh, and women like to put stupid shit on top of the fridge. So, when you are rocking her world, watch out for falling knife sets. I had a wax apple roll off one time, and hit this broad right between the eyes. It worked out, as her cooter clenched down hard on me (heh heh, I said hardon) right during the good part...excited, I bucked like a mule, and then, well, you can't imagine what a wax banana can do to the female nose...
Freaked her out a bit, I think, when I collected her snotty blood, and began to rub a warm palm-full of it onto my turgid cock...
Be naughty. Be nasty. Make each other scream. Lose normal speech abilities. Forget basic facts. When you are handling your man's dick properly, he should forget his own name. When she's writhing on your tongue, she should devolve back into a gob of primordial goo from the pre-Cambrian.
I've said it before...do her until she sits in the corner of the bed, against the wall, holding her pillow in front of her, and shrieking a bit if you look like you're gonna touch her again.
Just fuck. Pray and give thanks for what you are about to receive, and worship God's creation.